Feeling Wild and Sexy!

Feeling Wild and Sexy!
Animal print dress that I wore to the Princeton Club on 05/07/10 - woohoo!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Coffee and Sex (Part 2)


Now, I was going to make you all wait for the more interesting part of this two part "series" blog or whatever the hell you call it, I don't know.  But I didn't want to wait and didn't want to put it off because I don't blog on here very often so it might end up being another month before I would post part 2 so here goes, lol

As far as sex goes, I suppose you could call me a real freak.  I love sex and I'm almost 99.9% certain that I am addicted to sex.  They say though that is only a bad thing if it interferes with your everyday life and hurts your family and loved ones.  Well, as far as I am concerned it is NOT hurting my family, it does NOT interfere with my everyday life as I have a job and make money as a result of it, aka my Southern Charms and Niteflirt websites, I have a roof over my head, a warm bed and can occasionally enjoy the finer things in life as well.  I have a happy healthy sex life, I masturbate almost daily plus I enjoy making love with my husband.  Then we have our family who we spend quality time with and friends as well who we hang out with and then our "special" friends who we play with when we have the time :)

I enjoy the website, I enjoy posing for the camera but here's a little secret - I enjoy taking my own pictures even more because it is more intimate - that I am posing as well as playing for you - my viewer, whether you are a fan, or a member, I love being your cyber girlfriend aka fantasy lover.  Personally, when I am shooting I get really turned on with anticipation as I can't wait to get my clothes off and start shooting the really naughty pictures, playing with myself, spreading myself for you - and using toys.  It's all good and it feels good, so what is so bad about it right? 

When having sex, whether it's on or off camera, my favorite part is the foreplay - I truly enjoy kissing and if you don't enjoy kissing me then why even have sex?!  Then comes the carressing and the tasting, which is the ultimate turn-on - AS LONG AS YOU KNOW HOW TO DO IT.  I have been with guys who go down on me and they totally have no clue what they are doing, or they are only down there for ten seconds then they want to just whip it out and start jackhammering away.  And that's another issue - if you don't know how to fuck properly then you aren't pleasuring a woman, trust me guys you aren't.  I have been with guys who are so rough that literally they hurt me, this one guy who we used to play with still calls us and I won't call him back because I don't have the nerve to tell him that he isn't good at pleasuring me.  Haha, let some other woman tell him, maybe he'll learn one of these days LOL  But then again, maybe I should give him one more last chance, just tell him hey you need to be a little more gentle with me, I like it more softer, I like more oral, etc.  I don't know, I would feel bad telling him because then he might think I'm telling him he's not a good lover.

But most of my experiences have been good, the only thing is I haven't gotten to play with enough sexy women.  I had a guy ask me recently which I enjoyed more, men or women.  I told him definitely men, although being bisexual I'll admit that I am truly attracted to women as long as they are feminine and clean and take care of themselves to a certain extent.   I am not super picky and I am not shallow, as I know that I am not perfect nor do I expect others to be.  But definitely for there to be any playing there must be a connection as well as a definite chemistry.

I am selective and if you have written to me before and have gotten a minimal response, it most of the time means that I might be busy with my personal/family life, but then also it could possibly be because I am not interested.  I hate to admit but I don't always have the "balls" to flat out tell somebody that they are not my type as I do not want to hurt their feelings.  I have had this one guy who we keep talking to, he texted me yesterday and I have told him a few times that we are taking a break, so then last night I told him that he was an attractive guy, but that we were no longer interested and good luck in his search and future endeavors, etc.  I guess after this he finally got the hint because he didn't text back.  If he does text us back again I hate to admit it but I'm going to have to get a little bit rude with him.   I'm starting to wish that there was a way that you could block certain people from texting altogether, if anybody knows if there is (which I am sure there is but I just haven't bothered to look into it) please let me know. 

Anyways, I could ramble on and on.  I have some of my other favorite sexual things listed on my bio on my website so if you want to read more please read my BIO and/or FAQ pages on my website.

Hope this was an interesting enough Part 2 sequel to this entry.  Again, I appologize for any typos, incorrect spelling or grammar as I am only an amateur :)  Also if this wasn't what you were expecting I appologize.  I might start a blog in the Member's Section of my website or maybe even a "vlog" video log where I both talk to you and "demonstrate" a few things that I like sexually...a little talk and alot of ACTION (wink)  lol

Have a Sexy Day!


Coffee and Sex (Part 1)


Two of my favorite indulgences are sex and coffee - and both are necessities for me as well!  First of all, as most of you who have gotten to know me over a period of time know that I love coffee.  I love Starbucks and used to frequent this place as well as this one local coffee shop in my hometown that has since closed down unfortunately and I have no clue why because they were awesome - they had these chocolate flavored coffee drinks that they used Ghirardelli chocolate in and the my favorite flavored coffee was the dark chocolate raspberry mocha - oh it was to die for! Yum!!  Also they had this other one that I tried and it tasted just like an Almond Joy candybar, it was really delicious too!  As far as Starbucks goes, my favorite beverages there is the skinny carmel macchiato, iced in the summer and hot in the fall and winter.  I also love the pumpkin latte in the fall time as well as the white chocolate mint mocha or the gingerbread mocha in the winter time around the Holidays.  I also love the creme brulee' mocha  - then let's not forget the eggnogg mocha as well.  Hell they are all good, I love them all! LOL I normally try to make them "skinny" with skimmed milk to try to cut back on calories and fat, although I know that they still have alot of calories anyways but oh well!  Screw dieting anyways LOL

I bought a Keurig back during the summer, actually hubby surprised me with it - one of our friends had bought one and we both were fascinated with it.  Sure the box of K-cups run around $11-$12 for a box of 18 of them but if you break it down it's still cheaper than the $4.00 mochas from Starbucks, especially for us living out in the country with the nearest Starbucks being 20 miles away so it really is quite affordable.  We have it now worked out to where the husband buys his Caribou coffee light roast K-cups and I will buy a box of flavored coffee.  I bought a variety box of the fall K-cups which included pumpkin spice coffee, cappuccino, hot cocoa and hot apple cider.  I enjoyed them all except for the apple cider, there are still eight of them left and the rest is gone.  Then I had a very sweet fan who sent me a box of Timothy's Pumpkin Spice flavored coffee K-cups - it was heavenly as well! 

Now I am working on the Donut Shop Chocolate Glazed Donut flavor and really enjoying it.  It smells sooo good while it is brewing and reminds me exactly of a chocolate glazed donut mixed with coffee :)  I am thinking of trying another flavor when this box runs out (which will be in the next day or so) and so if anybody has a suggestion of what flavor for me to try next, feel free to let me know.  I would love to try some type of mint chocolate type of mocha but I didn't see anything like this so if you know of any type of K-cups in this particular flavor or similar please let me know about this as well :)  I might just buy some regular or vanilla flavored coffee and some mint flavored Bailey's Irish cream (I LOVE Bailey's!) and kick it up a notch for one of those evenings sitting by the fireplace....which could lead to some other things in this cozy romantic setting...mmmmm

Speaking of that...now that I am done talking about coffee....onto my next favorite indulgence.....SEX!!! 

Better to save the best for last, right? lol



P.S.  I am not an author so please do not criticize me for errors or improper grammar, this is strictly amateur and just for kicks and giggles as well as the enjoyment of those who enjoy the simple things in life just like I do ;)